My boyfriend have been dating month
It’s somewhat worrisome that he won’t even make plans with you when his ex is in town, but you say you trust him and know he wouldn’t cheat.But you don’t only talk to your boyfriend about something that bothers you when it’s a huge deal. If there’s something you’re thinking about and only he’s got the answers, you should almost always talk to him. What matters is that you find a way to talk about important things as you build a relationship that works for both of you. Even if this not a rejection — and I don’t think this is one — I know it can feel like it. (It’s OK to tease him.) Tell him that you’d like to know more about where he’s coming from — more than that he just “generally waits.” And tell him why you are ready. The reason you should really talk this out is the same reason why I don’t like the word “abnormal.” It doesn’t matter what he does “generally,” just as it doesn’t matter what’s “normal.” This is just about the two of you and nobody else.Some messages were flirty or stated we had been rocky.We got in a fight but he said none of the snaps meant anything.Let him know how it made you feel: that it hurt you and made you feel insecure and made it harder for you to trust the man you love.Don’t brush away your feelings or apologize for them.
He's been hurt in the past and I believe he was scared of getting hurt again.I know he would never cheat but I can't help but worry he'll always be tempted to turn to others for a confidence boost when things get complicated.I love him and have always trusted him, but I don't know if his actions have made me insecure and we have an actual issue, or if it's the anxiety and our problems are truly in the past. Try as we might to wipe the slate clean, there are always smudges.And we’re always told that the girlfriends who ask too many questions are whiny crazies, and the boyfriends who talk about feelings are oversensitive wusses. Almost nobody wants to appear vulnerable, even if everyone on earth truly is. I also wouldn’t waste your precious time worrying about his social media likes.Tracking every Facebook like is not going to make you or anyone else happy.