Dating intimacy too soon
And if that is the case, that’s great information to have so soon in dating him.
Sure, you could have not had sex and hopefully gotten the same information.
It’s important to talk about your feelings with someone you trust, someone who can hold your experience with compassion and care.
Maybe you simply need to have the STD and birth control talk so you’re both on the same page. Guys can feel insecure too, and by starting off with what you enjoyed, it helps set a positive tone.
Do you want to take all sexual activity off the table? Do you need to feel more emotionally connected with him first?
By repeating what the other person said, you get a chance to clear up any misunderstanding right there in the moment.
Then give him a chance to openly share his own thoughts and feelings.