Dating a rich older man
'In the Victorian era it was respectable to marry for security,’ she says.'I was brought up in the hippy era, so for me talking about money was tacky. 'Greed is no longer perceived as a bad thing, and women are admired for being smart, but not necessarily clever. In the digital era people are used to getting things very quickly and they may think, “Why go through the slog of building a career?With a couple of clicks you can inspect the 'sugar daddies’.There’s 'Rico’ based in Lucerne, photographed on a tropical beach in sunglasses and tagged 'I have an interesting life’.Similar sites to Seeking Arrangement launch every month. These sites offer a marketplace where older, rich men and younger, pretty women engage in brutally brazen transactions.On mainstream dating sites members witter about 'soul mates’.
When she later joined Seeking Arrangement, matters became even more blatant, with Croydon’s dates regularly handing her bundles of cash in return for her company. There has to be a genuine attraction and an element of wooing for there to be sex.In the darkened bar of a hotel in Kensington, London, scores of young women in short, tight dresses are huddled together, sipping white wine.Scattered among them are a few men, usually much, much older, in suits and ties. ’ purrs one girl in her early twenties with a voluptuous figure swathed in a red bandage frock.'Girls on this site can meet some incredibly interesting and powerful men,’ Wade says. But since the feminist revolution the idea of chasing wealth has been frowned upon; women could make their own way in the world.But the clinical psychologist Sheila Keegan believes the situation has come full circle.