Dating a guy two years younger than you
‘Women have a biological clock that they need to live by if they want to have kids and stuff,’ he told uk.‘And more often than not by the time a girl is 30 she is thinking about kids and a family.‘Which then means there’s a weird time when a girl is like I NEED to have kids.And it ends up not working.’ This is a very valid point, but if you’re a woman who’s pretty chill about getting married and popping out babies (hi), then there’s no problem. No-one bats an eyelid if a male dates a younger female, yet a woman goes even a few years below her own age and she’s suddenly a thirsty ‘cougar‘?Plus, research says that women hit their sexual prime later than men,so you may well be doing yourself a favour going younger.Raff, 27 (who’s in a longterm relationship with someone a year and a half older) points out a major flaw in some older woman/younger man partnerships, from his previous experience.‘Say her guy is 25 – he’s definitely not ready for that.
I tend to meet guys while I’m away travelling/working overseas and most of them are younger than me, but age really isn’t as big of a deal when you’re travelling as it is back home.
For example, generally, you try to avoid people with two first names or those who abbreviate the word probably as “probs.” But you never know; that one awful abbreviator could be your soulmate.
So, I'm proposing this "8-year rule" in dating as an absolute.
If you connect with someone, you connect with someone.
I look young for my age and I act young for my age, so why should I feel ashamed (or even surprised) that I’m attracted to guys a few years younger than me?